Saturday, 31 October 2020

!?Grrrrrrrr

 Yesterday was supposed to be moving day...they eventually received the keys to the cottage at 9:35 last night...completion had taken place at 9:30am! Very poorly planned move to have either women or people needing a stent fitted plus an ex husband helping. The place she was going to just the couple were doing it all themselves meaning their small rent a van load number one didn't get unloaded until nearly 4pm.    However in the 4 houurs they waited they got nothing ready to move such as all her plants and pots and garden things..Hubby got shouted at by a very viscious daughter at 5pm when he offered to help. Apparently they had until midnight to clear out. So he pointed out that actually that would have been midday and they were technically trespassing. We kept a curtain open in order to watch them struggle. I believe that they only dismantled a large polytunnel last evening in the dark. So nothing ended up moving yesterday from our place apart from their cars which they parked there late last night. They only really wanted to move in things from the horsebox that hubby and son-in -law had fetched from the in-laws the night before and which had to be moved out of a shed as the bull needed bringing into the shed due to beaters being around today! 

One thing moved a little too fast yesterday lunchtime though...me down the stairs carrying armfuls of washing...today I will not be lifting much of anything and have a hot water bottle attached to my back.

In hindsight we should have known that moving would be just as traumatic as purchasing really!

Blessings J. x

Thursday, 29 October 2020

One More Sleep!

 Hopefully tomorrow daughter and her little family will finally complete on the purchase of the cottage next to us. It has certainly been a long time coming...so much time with many ups and downs so when the news arrived last Thursday that the searches were back none of us became excited...well they managed to exchange contracts the very next day and fingers and toes are crossed there are no last minute hiccups tomorrow.

I had already booked the week off...thinking I would be out in the garden tilling the vast quantity of bulbs I’d purchased...of course the weather has had other ideas so I’ve stayed close to the Aga preserving apples, pears and chutney daily..

This morning I think I am beginning to feel a slight fizz of something that could be considered excitement...maybe after a delicious coffee I will be able to gage my feelings further...

The irony of it is that all these months daughter has been on maternity leave...and she starts back at school on Monday...such good timing!

Best wishes go to Weaver of The Grass for a speedy recovery...I read on Sue’s blog she has suffered a fall.

I’ll update soon...the thought of my carpet being free of toys for some of the time is really appealing right now!

Blessings J. x

Thursday, 22 October 2020

Grabbing Five Minutes...

 Of peace that would be...

The 'lodgers' have left for a trip out as Son in Law has the day off from school today...

I have been making the most of the quiet time but now am indulging in a little me time...

Arthur the budgie has been cleaned out and is chirping along to some music...

However I have just realised that one of the kittens has discovered his cage which I had left on the table to serve as a change of scenery for him...oops...sorry Arthur!

Speaking of the kittens let me introduce you to the little darlings...

Meet Kitty...

and Wilbur...



These two scamps are finding their way into my broken heart and are getting away with some pretty mischevious antics...should the front door curtain provide endless hours of enjoyment??

It is just as well our leather suite has served us well for over ten years...it is ageing rather quickly at the moment though I have to admit they are two cute time wasters.

The photo of Kitty is older than the one of Wilbur I believe, anyway they are both much larger than this now...

Neither is aftaid of the big black dog...Bea (Grand-dog)...

 Hubby and I were able to take a trip up North last week to stay with our Son and his partner...

Hubby helped him with some electrics and plumbing...

I took up some paperwork and managed to get a reasonable amount done without little people trying to help...

The local searches are due back a week from today...

I hope...really hope there will be no further delays with the move...

We all need to move on and have our own space...

I know that when Bea goes the loss of Heidi may well become more apparent than ever...

I will deal with this in my own way...

Making myself get out for a non-dog walk is proving difficult...but I am determined that when the family have vacated I shall begin to lose my excess weight again...this time hopefully keeping it off too...

To think that years ago I was such a skinny ninny and couldn't put any weight on...really!

I must thank all of you that wrote kind messages with regard to our news of losing Heidi...she was indeed one of those very special dogs who makes a place in our hearts and will never be forgotten. I miss her resting her white whiskered tooth missing chin on my lap at mealtimes and not having her greet me everytime I return home...but she is sill in my heart and her spirit is with me when I go walking in the woods. She is free of pain and I owed her enough not to make her linger when life became too much...

Blessings J. x




Thursday, 8 October 2020

The End of an Era

Not sure how many will have noticed my recent absence from all things blogging.

Well today I return with an explanation...

My beloved dog Heidi failed in the last few weeks and on more than one occasion I nearly made ‘the call’

Sadly on Tuesday morning I had no choice but to do so and then waited until 5:50 when the surgery would be empty to take her in.

The end was beautiful if any end can be. She looked so relaxed and peaceful.

But then I had to leave her. Well her body. I hope her spirit will some day find its way back home to us and can freely roam the lanes and woodland she loved. For Heidi there is no more pain. My heart however feels as though a massive chunk is missing. I am going to work later today and am not sure whether it will be a blessed distraction or not. I shall have to walk one of the residents dogs as I usually do. 

Do we ever really know if our decisions are too soon...we realise if they are too late, but timing such things is painfully tricky. Several nights  I lay awake with tears streaming not knowing quite what to do for the best.

I’m not sure how the gap Heidi has left will or can ever be filled. We do now have two adorable little kittens who came to live with us a week ago. I nearly cancelled them as Heidi was going downhill. However they belonged to a niece who really wanted them to stay in the family. I mustn’t push them aside in my grief for they have done nothing wrong. I’m not yet ready to introduce them to you though.  For now it’s about the memories...the happy times...

Rest in peace my beloved Heidi.

J. x

Friday, 11 September 2020

Snap Out Of It!

 Well...after visiting the Council offices in person yesterday...

And wonder of wonders getting to see a real person...

It became evident that trying to get a personal search as opposed to a regular search would take just as long...

So we wait...

27 working days so it seems...

I can only hope that they are working 5 days a week...

The timescale quoted via the estate agent today was a good week over what I had worked out...

But enough...

If this is our only problem then we are indeed fortunate...

I know a mother who is most likely shortly going to be losing her daughter...

Leaving a husband and two young daughters behind...

I have no reason to be complaining...

 


Just look at these beautiful hawthorn berries...

This was taken after I had picked some...

The evening sunshine was so beautiful and showed the berries at their absolute best...

Hopefully the ones I have picked will soon be turned into delicious hawberry jelly...

And if I have enough some may well get mixed together with rose hips and become cordial...

When the sun is shining I don't think you can beat an Autumn day...

Today however has been overcast from the break of dawn...

It looks as if it will be that way until after dusk... 

Blessings J. x


Tuesday, 8 September 2020

Would Screaming Help?

 Goodness me...

I feel fit to scream...or at least have a tantrum...

Daughter and her family are still ensconsed at ours...

Moving day was going to be this Friday...

WAS

However last Friday they had a call from their newly unfurloughed solicitor...

Because things have taken so long their searches were about to run out...

Before this Friday...

So she called the bank to ask if they could be covered by an indemnity insurance...

The bank would get back within five working days...

They apparently have this morning, and have requested new searches to be done...

The local council are at the moment taking 27 working days to complete searches...

Next doors searches for her new property were delayed twice...

Causing this whole sorry mess...

We were really hoping they would be in in time for Henry to celebrate his second birthday...

But no...

I just want my life back and for them to start the rest of theirs...

Eight weeks and counting have clocked up so far!

I am trying to tell myself there are far worse problems to have...

And I know there are...

But still...

It has been an awfully long time...

And breathe...

~

I have been finding the odd moment to slip away from our chaotic life and pick some blackberries.
How come the juciest ones hang beautifully just out of reach...
If only I were a little taller, a little wiser, a little richer!
Recently I have purchased some WECK canning jars and have been bottling and water bath canning apple sauce, pears in syrup, chutney, and stewed apple chunks.
The men and little men of the house seem to have constant hunger pangs...
There is always somethoing bubbling on top of the Aga or baking in it...

~

Work continues to dominate my life...
I have picked up a few extra shifts and can feel my back begining to say enough is enough!
However I have treated myself in a big way, and am doing a couple extra shifts for a few months in order to pay for my lovely coffee machine.
Normally I do not drink coffee...
I don't care for the aftertaste of instant...
And when out do not appreciate the strength of the regular brews on offer...
However I do love coffee...
Especially a late macchiato with ten mini marshmallows floating in it's frothy milk topping...
One per day is the usual treat...
Yum indeed!

We are shortly going on another berry hunt...

So Blessings, J. x



Wednesday, 19 August 2020

I Have Lived

As I walk along the country lanes I have soaked up the sights and smells...

Of blackberries...ripe and bursting with juicy goodness...

The sweet nectar eminating from the honeysuckle which rambles through the hedges...

Swallows...swooping and soaring...

Just beginning to gather upon the wires...

Hedges being cut...the fresh green smell of sap...

Heavenly...

Not forgetting the call of the wood pidgeon...

Serenading me as I head for home...

To our home which is full to the brim as eldest and her family are still with us...

We are hoping for some positive news any day now...

Early wake up calls are alright in moderation...

Bless their little souls...

I can't help longing for a little peace and quiet though...

They have been here nearly six weeks now...

Summer seems to have almost left us...

The colours of the trees are changing...

That old wheel is definitely turning...

Autumn will be here before we know it...

The nights are drawing in...

And cooler nights will be a blessing...

Speaking of which...

Blessings J. x